Step 2:find a few close friends who also like the thing
Step 3:don't talk to anyone else in the fandom literally those 5-6 persons are your fandom
In response, by sunshinetonks:Tried this with Sanctuary fandom. You know, that which is also my worst fandom experience. To this day, I hope Lili either eats a bag of dicks, or gets hit by a passing train. Bitter? Me? Never. But, seriously, either avoid fandom like the plague, avoid people who in retrospect were giant fucking narcissists, or have, like, 2 other people who you trust with your life in it with you, not 5 or 6. Self-preservation ftw.
I think you might be more powerful than I am. There's nothing stopping me, but I can't. You've got so much against you, and you still can.
I’m in a position where you guys don’t get to see me at my worst - when I’m stuck in the hospital or too ill to even pull myself out of bed. I try to show you all my best; but don’t think that doesn’t mean there aren’t times when I just curl up in a ball.
You can’t live your life by comparing what you’re able to do to what someone else is capable of. If I did that, I’d go out of my mind constantly. You do what’s best for you - whether that means pushing forward or taking time for yourself.
Focus on the good aspects of you - focus on the things you do accomplish. I’m sure you’re not giving yourself the credit you deserve.
You’re a wonderful human being and I care about you.
I want to share this letter someone sent me about their concerns about the implications of my pregnancy in light of my public asexuality, as well as my reply and their subsequent response, just in case there is anyone else out there who might have similar concerns or questions.
I am always open to LGBTQIA-related discussions, and am proud to represent my place in humanity’s spectrum!
"Back in my day we had one hundred and fifty and that was how we liked it. You kids and your newfangled pokegears and your holocasters, when I was your age we talked to trainers face to face, it’s like you kids don’t respect communication with imaginary video game tater tot people anymore"
Sexual Predators do not deserve to be ‘left alone’. They deserve to be called out. They deserve worse than that, but I’ll stick to the calling out for the purpose of this ranting.
Their acts of abuse and predation are not just ‘silly mistakes’ that the…
And, according to his very own texts that were convenient redacted (but you can see them here) there are at least 9 victims he acknowledges he’s not “on good terms with” and at least two who openly say that he sexually abused them - myself and Diamond.
But he can chaaaaange. THIS time he’s REALLY all better. Because wikipedia.
• shirts actually designed for girls with larger chests • plus size clothing ACTUALLY intended to accommodate plus size people not just scaled up littler clothing • clothes for tall people that won’t ride up • pants for…